people who don't change

I just, out of morbid curiosity, googled an ex-boyfriend of mine.

Well, morbid curiosity, and a healthy desire to keep tabs on the fuckin psychopath. Just want to make sure he's not getting ANYWHERE NEAR ME or my family.

Anyhoo, so I googled him, and found an interview with his most recent ex-girlfriend in a newspaper. In which she was spouting all of the same brainwashing that he attempted to pull on me. (Didn't work, by the way)

This is 10 years after I left his ass. He's still talking about, pulling and doing the same old shit. That's SO disappointing.

Admittedly, he is a psychopath, but still... I had at least held out hope that he had enough of a shred of intelligence to change at least somewhere along the lines.

But no, he's just your every day average ordinary dumbshit, with the same undeservedly huge ego, and the same utter lack of self-reflection. And did I mention that he's a pscyhopath?

Regardless, I hold out hope for all human beings that there will be growth, or at least some change in their patterns. Grow or die... and apparently most people hit "die" by default.

This is one of those things that consistently disappoints me about people. I'm not sure I can even find it in myself to hate this particular characteristic. It's just... absolutely worthless.

On the other hand, I'm pretty amused at myself in this post. My mother had told me, day after day, when I was in highschool that I would become more forgiving of people as I get older. Heh. Apparently not.

Nobody needs to be in the exact same mental geographical location they were in ten years ago. Or even two years ago. Or maybe even five minutes ago.

GROW OR DIE!